I don't come on TP much anymore
I used to, and was even going to be a TP moderator.
I had a fairly massive stroke, but have managed to get mostly over it.
These days when I do post I seem to be either largely ignored or get told that I'm worng.
Maybe TP has outlived its use for me
Hi, I am fairly new here, I guess about 18 months, and find it great, I sometimes find that after I post the thread dies and I have wondered if it was something I said, or the way I said it
but then my next post grows legs and lots of people get involved and even answer me directly which I find lovely, that something I have said has resonated with someone, often in the middle of the night or 4am ( not sure why I wake at that time, maybe I should start a thread!!
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Anyway, my point is, that maybe you are overthinking this, if you feel the site helped you in the past, chances are it will again, and as for getting told you are wrong, hell, if everyone told me how often I was wrong my ears would fall off, but for the one time I am right, it makes my day rosy again.
Having said that, I am sure there are clashes of personality/experiences/attitudes etc and often the way things come across in type are often not how they are intended ( I am often told I am too blunt...not here, in real life,
so cant even blame typing!! Maybe I am a little like Marmite) so if you find you dont quite see eye to eye with someone ignore them, or avoid threads that might be contentious, but dont leave if this site brings you comfort or shared experiences or even the occasional laugh ( I laughed out loud at a post the other day but didnt dare say in case anyone was offended, as it was about what someone with dementia had said)...I still found it funny though, but erred on side of caution as I love this site and would miss it like mad if I didnt have the endless support it offers. xx I hope you stay xx