Thank you so much as ever
@Marcelle123 - I hope things will go ahead smoothly now but I have a lot to do & I am now on my own.
I’m not going to bore you with the details but I have split up with my fiancé. In truth, it has been a long time in coming & to be honest things were rocky before my mum ended up in hospital & her death basically just delayed the inevitable.
I caught him out lying to me not once but twice in quick successful. He didn’t seem bothered & I asked to see his phone to prove he wasn’t lying about other things. He agreed to let me see the phone & then attempted to snatch it back after 2 minutes so I think that says it all. In the scrap that followed, he severely bruised my hand.
He fled off to his mum’s & then wouldn’t answer his phone, coward that he is, he got his visiting son to answer it. Yep get your child involved in your break up -says it all! He then came round to start getting his stuff out of the house with his son.
We had not even talked about what was going on so he clearly knew he had gone too far. His son started trying to taunt me on my doorstep so I told him that he wasn’t welcome & that if he continued to come in then he would be trespassing on the property. His son called the police on me so I had to do the same -. Total waste of police time as not necessary. I apologised to the police officer. I am not having a rude 18 yr old mouth off at me while his father does nothing.
So he has collected a car full & there is still so much stuff of his here & I cannot clear it out & move my stuff round until he gets it out. I’m also planning to get the stuff that I am selling from my mum’s over here so that I am not constantly between houses & so I can’t do that either.
It’s not what I was expecting at all & I felt we were on the verge of a fresh start, holiday booked ( now cancelled) & now this xx