hi I am new to this. Here goes,my husband is 66 and was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia and Alzheimer’s 3 years ago. His memory is getting worse but I can cope with that,it’s his personality change I am having difficulty with,I cannot reason with him he is back chatting me in nearly everything I say,and has become argumentative and does not seem to comprehend anything that I try to explain to him. He has never been a social person and won’t interact with any activities given to him for support. He chooses to sit at home on his iPad and maybe goes out on his bike for an hour maybe twice a week. He also suffers depression and last year I found out that he was contemplating suicide.He has also had a course of shock treatment. I myself have Ménière’s disease and now suffering panic attacks and anxiety. I am having to be careful at what I say as I do not know how he is going to answer me . I find this all very upsetting. We barely talk anymore. I do get out to the gym and also go to Kinesiology and meditation to help me. I am unhappy in our situation and don’t know what to do next. I know this is going to get worse and I know that i will not be able to cope. Sorry for this being so long.