I may be on the wrong support group, but my Good Lady of 20 years, sustained a traumatic brain injury 11 months ago and is slowly getting better. Northwick Park Hospital discharged her as plateaued and would not improve. Fran was then discharged to a local Dementia care home in Kent . Dignity and personal wellbeing, seems to, not to be an issue, as Fran has asked, many times to go to the toilet. The staff; keep saying; you have magic knickers on, you can "go". in your special pad. I am upset and cry everytime the staff say this.
As Fran looks into my eyes and says "I do not want to do it". Fran's; care plans describes, her as double incontinent. I consider this as physical and also mental abuse ; inasmuch as the care home are implementing; She can **** and **** in her pants and they will sort you out,later, in order, of their timetable and not as your needs are.
Thank you all in this group and all the lovely caring staff at the care home Fran is in. But I believe that Fran, has been; misdiagnosed; from the hospital and the local CCG.
Even the; solicitor that I have recently engaged with., Stated; Fran; SHOULD NOT BE HERE.
Hi Mark, can your organisation, sort out:
When someone is deemed double incontinent from the care home; but asked the staff 20 + times to go to the toilet.
As she is classed as doubly incontinent,I wish to give her the dignity,to be given the right to be taken to the toilet. Rather than soiling themselves.
I am, In pain watching Fran suffer the indignity an seeing her face of embarrassment. To be blunt, the staff are suggestion, that she ****'s herself.
Mark, my question and to others in this group. Is it; legally allowable, for a member of; staff to ignore a cry for help; to be immediately; respond to your toilet needs. I am so lost
As Fran looks into my eyes and says "I do not want to do it". Fran's; care plans describes, her as double incontinent. I consider this as physical and also mental abuse ; inasmuch as the care home are implementing; She can **** and **** in her pants and they will sort you out,later, in order, of their timetable and not as your needs are.
Thank you all in this group and all the lovely caring staff at the care home Fran is in. But I believe that Fran, has been; misdiagnosed; from the hospital and the local CCG.
Even the; solicitor that I have recently engaged with., Stated; Fran; SHOULD NOT BE HERE.
Hi Mark, can your organisation, sort out:
When someone is deemed double incontinent from the care home; but asked the staff 20 + times to go to the toilet.
As she is classed as doubly incontinent,I wish to give her the dignity,to be given the right to be taken to the toilet. Rather than soiling themselves.
I am, In pain watching Fran suffer the indignity an seeing her face of embarrassment. To be blunt, the staff are suggestion, that she ****'s herself.
Mark, my question and to others in this group. Is it; legally allowable, for a member of; staff to ignore a cry for help; to be immediately; respond to your toilet needs. I am so lost