Hi everyone
Sending love to everyone posting and following this part of the forum.
My mum died on 11th April.
I would say she was at the early stages of moderate dementia. There had been signs since Christmas that her dementia was progressing and I was starting to think about the future and what she might need.
Then on 3rd April she had a massive stroke. She never regained consciousness and I spent the next 8 days in hospital with her.
On the death certificate there was no reference to Alzheimer’s as a pre-existing medical condition and that didn’t seem right to me as it has been part of her life for years and indeed part of mine. They added if on following me raising if.
I still feel like I am living in a parallel universe where it hasn’t happened. There is so much to be done and it’s not straightforward. Day by day I guess.
My stomach is in knots and is uncomfortable all the time. This has come out of the blue. I am worried about it but suspect it’s in my mind.
I was always thinking of the future - expecting my mum to deteriorate with respect to her dementia and preparing myself for that. I didn’t expect her to go so quickly.
Sending love to everyone posting and following this part of the forum.
My mum died on 11th April.
I would say she was at the early stages of moderate dementia. There had been signs since Christmas that her dementia was progressing and I was starting to think about the future and what she might need.
Then on 3rd April she had a massive stroke. She never regained consciousness and I spent the next 8 days in hospital with her.
On the death certificate there was no reference to Alzheimer’s as a pre-existing medical condition and that didn’t seem right to me as it has been part of her life for years and indeed part of mine. They added if on following me raising if.
I still feel like I am living in a parallel universe where it hasn’t happened. There is so much to be done and it’s not straightforward. Day by day I guess.
My stomach is in knots and is uncomfortable all the time. This has come out of the blue. I am worried about it but suspect it’s in my mind.
I was always thinking of the future - expecting my mum to deteriorate with respect to her dementia and preparing myself for that. I didn’t expect her to go so quickly.