what are your long term plans???? How many times have I been asked this recently!
OH has been hospitalised for 25 of the 30 days of April
Firstly with Sepsis....home for 2.5days of problems them read admitted via A&E with infection..........
Notes read Sepsis then developed a ‘chest infection’ ( when I quieried pneumonia I was told ‘ we don’t use that name any more , curious,,)
Each time in A and E was asked about ‘long term planing’ now today the consultant who has been treating OH again asked me ‘what are your long term plans’ ?
How on earth can I ( as main carer plus 4x daily visits from professional carers) can I make those plans....
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Oh has lost his mobility BUT his mixed dementia appears slight to moderate!!!
He obvisoulsy has capacity, and would certainly not choose anything other than to be ‘in his own home’
What plans can be made when in the end it will be down to when either the carers cannot cope, I have a breaking point or yet again another health crisis!! Knowing this probably won’t be the last time he has hospital via A& E .
Whatever, SS will , I am certain, expect me to ‘keep calm and carry on’.
The difficulty of not being able to self fund!!!!
So I don’t have any long term plan..........will just have to wait!
As of today OH expected home in 2 days time,
OH has been hospitalised for 25 of the 30 days of April
Firstly with Sepsis....home for 2.5days of problems them read admitted via A&E with infection..........
Notes read Sepsis then developed a ‘chest infection’ ( when I quieried pneumonia I was told ‘ we don’t use that name any more , curious,,)
Each time in A and E was asked about ‘long term planing’ now today the consultant who has been treating OH again asked me ‘what are your long term plans’ ?
How on earth can I ( as main carer plus 4x daily visits from professional carers) can I make those plans....
I
Oh has lost his mobility BUT his mixed dementia appears slight to moderate!!!
He obvisoulsy has capacity, and would certainly not choose anything other than to be ‘in his own home’
What plans can be made when in the end it will be down to when either the carers cannot cope, I have a breaking point or yet again another health crisis!! Knowing this probably won’t be the last time he has hospital via A& E .
Whatever, SS will , I am certain, expect me to ‘keep calm and carry on’.
The difficulty of not being able to self fund!!!!
So I don’t have any long term plan..........will just have to wait!
As of today OH expected home in 2 days time,