Hi Just wanted some advice.Mum in law has very mild memory loss- doesnt remember date of birth any more and not able to remember to take pills But she has capacity to make decisions.Also has stage 4 lung cancer and on targeted treatment.We have her
living with us for last 4 months as she will sleep all day and not eat or wash.She is weak and breathless and high risk falls
My husband is self employed and has had to stop work to look after her as I work( 3 days a week) and I cant take time off- I could lose my job.My husband is the main earner. Her house is left empty.Mum in law has told my husband to draw out money to help pay bills and food shopping etc as he is not working . Legally is this ok? He has been named on her bank account for last 8 years because she cannot read or write and he has been paying all her bills and managing everything for her house all those years as she was well .We are able to manage to pay our mortgage etc being very carefull and cutting costs but I am worried how we will cope financially long term.Any advice appreciated
living with us for last 4 months as she will sleep all day and not eat or wash.She is weak and breathless and high risk falls
My husband is self employed and has had to stop work to look after her as I work( 3 days a week) and I cant take time off- I could lose my job.My husband is the main earner. Her house is left empty.Mum in law has told my husband to draw out money to help pay bills and food shopping etc as he is not working . Legally is this ok? He has been named on her bank account for last 8 years because she cannot read or write and he has been paying all her bills and managing everything for her house all those years as she was well .We are able to manage to pay our mortgage etc being very carefull and cutting costs but I am worried how we will cope financially long term.Any advice appreciated