I am new to this forum. I need advice- my 55 year old sister has been living with me for 7 months. She lived in a different part of the country for 30 years but we remained close and were a part of each other's lives. I noticed 3 years ago that she was having some problems but I thought it was due to stress. In March of 2018 my husband of 32 years suffered cardiac arrest and my life changed in an instant. When my sister came for the funeral there was something very wrong with her. i was stunned at her dramatic weight loss and kept her with me for 6 weeks until I foolishly let her return home after her 25 year old daughter promised that she would find out what was happening. Needless to say, she tried a few visits to doctors but no diagnosis. In September of 2018, my niece put my sister on an airplane and said I could "deal with it". I have a diagnosis now: frontal temporal lobe dementia. I am struggling to balance 2 jobs, scheduling friends and family to be with my sister while I cannot. My 3 sons are exhausted and worried that my health will fail and they will lose my as they have just lost their father. I love my sister and my heart aches for her. Please help me, how do I do this?