I am having a frustrating day having had little sleep for a few nights, crunched my hip at night but was ignored by wife and could hardly move for two days. Today changed beds washed bedding got her out of trousers, wet, managed to get her to change all clothes other than bra, 6 months on, washed those apart from Always pants, got her to the bath but then she refused to go in,can`t remember last time she bathed, have a mobile hairdresser but a battle every time,she walked out of sons lat week,have to spend an age trying to get her out of car when we go to daughters dismissive of other people and frequently leaving to go back to mam and dads taking all the money and I can get lost. Takes shoes off when she goes to bed but nothing else and puts them back on when she gets up may use a wet wipe on her face. Used to bathe every day and wash hair 3/4 times a week. Won`t go into day centres so I`m stuck and feel awful saying that because my feelings for her are unchanged after 59 years married. I can`t leave her on her own, unsafe. Could scream sometimes.