Thank you Mameeskye
We had an appointment with a diabetic nurse today. Not the diabetic nurse Dhiren usually sees at the GP`s surgery, but one from the hospital team, as a follow up to the nurse who saw him while he was on the assessment ward in June.
Our appointment was at the local health centre where Dhiren sees the podiatrist.
He said he was not going.
I told him he had to go as I had received a letter asking us to go.
He said I could go by myself and he would stay at home.
I told him I was not the diabetic, the nurse wanted to see him.
He said he would go by himself.
I told him I needed to be there to discuss his glucose readings.
I asked if I should book a taxi.
He asked where it was.
I said at the health centre
He asked where it was
I said at the clinic where he has his feet checked.
He said we could walk.
We walked.
He walked so quickly I struggled to keep up.
All the way he was asking why he had to go, why I was going with him, who was he seeing, which doctor, which nurse, what would they do, what would they say.
We got to the traffic lights. I was breathless. He told me I was not fit, too fat, he was fit, he was not out of breath. He could walk ten miles there and ten miles back.
We arrived. We sat in the waiting room.
He kept looking at his watch.
We waited less than five minutes.
He still looked at his watch.
The nurse invited us into her room.
He told me to wait outside.
I said I was going in with him.
The nurse asked how he was.
He said fine.
There was nothing wrong with him. He was fit and well.
He took his shoes and socks off.
The nurse asked about his blood glucose, had he brought a record with him.
He said it was fine.
I gave her the record.
He asked when she was going to cut his nails.
She said that was podiatry. She was a diabetic nurse.
I said he had an appointment on Friday to have his nails cut.
He said he was fine and shouldn`t be wasting her time.
She was pleased he was fine. He wasn`t wasting her time. It was good news.
She asked about his medication.
I told her about his medication.
She asked how he was monitored at the GP`s surgery.
I told her.
He asked her to cut his nails.
She said he had an appointment on Friday.
He started to put his socks back on, but couldn`t.
He put his socks in his coat pocket.
He put his shoes on and got up to go.
The nurse gave me her phone number.
The nurse said it had been good to meet him.
He shook hands with her and walked out.
I followed.
We got the bus home in silence.
He is cross with me now.