My wife who has had dementia for some 5 years, recently had a stroke and has niow entered residential care, She has not got the mental capacity to initiate nor undertake basic personal care activities (such as washing/showering, teeth cleaning, having her pads changed/ going to the toilet etc) without assistance
The Care Home staff approach her to undertake these activities in a kindly, calm, and friendly manner, offering every assurance
Sadly however, my wife responds on every occasion, by shouting/screaming at the helper in an aggressive manner and is totally unco-operative throughout the activity and of course ends up very upset.
To the credit of the helpers, they continue to provide help in an efficient and effective manner without losing their composure.
Within a short time after the task is completed, my wife calms down and forgets the incident and her behaviour
Can anyone suggest a strategy/strategies which might eliminate or at least reduce my wife's challenging behaviour in respect of personal care
The Care Home staff approach her to undertake these activities in a kindly, calm, and friendly manner, offering every assurance
Sadly however, my wife responds on every occasion, by shouting/screaming at the helper in an aggressive manner and is totally unco-operative throughout the activity and of course ends up very upset.
To the credit of the helpers, they continue to provide help in an efficient and effective manner without losing their composure.
Within a short time after the task is completed, my wife calms down and forgets the incident and her behaviour
Can anyone suggest a strategy/strategies which might eliminate or at least reduce my wife's challenging behaviour in respect of personal care