Not a moan, rant or anything like that! I am interested in the changes partners have seen with regard to behaviour. For instance my husband was told to,reduce / stop alcohol. He was drinking a bottle of wine a night which he mixed with diluted summer fruits. I added water to the bottle gradually to the point it is all water bar a drizzle of wine - he has no idea..... and gaily tells anyone he drinks a bottle a night! he used to love the TV on when we went to bed - now it has to be turned off or he huffs and puffs. He drinks cups of tea one after the other and smokes (A LOT). He obviously gets up for the toilet in the middle of the night and lately has started wanting a cigarette but tries to tell me the dog wanted to go out (who was sound asleep on my bed until he opened the patio door ) he is compliant when I tell him not to be so silly it's the middle of the night and he's to get back to bed. He has also started putting the light on in the toilet which he has never ever done at night! I am fascinated by how their minds work and for as much as he drives me completely insane with his quirks I find myself wondering what's coming next. He is one happy chappy - like having a 5 year old that never learns or grows up