OH mobility declining rapidly! Now wheelchairedapart from a few steps to bathroom, has to be wheelchaired to table to eat etc, ! OT to supply a rotaunder for transfers whilst he can use the recliner chair to get up! ( don’t know what I am supposed to do when It is just me here!
Also been told for safety he must remain in his profiling bed overnight and use bottle, that’s not working bed and OH soaking this morning, trying pants tonight’s!
Question, is this decline all due to the dementia! ( Mixed Alzheimer’s and Vascular) A decline in cognitive also very apparent, yesterday for first time couldn’t work out guide on his TV remote or change to amount of money!
Who do I go to for these answers?
DN here this morning ( insulin injection) and for the first time said probably time to start considering care home! Horrible when said out loud although have known for some time could be the outcome!
Question 2. Who decides when OH will need residential care? He would require funding and I know that SS will try to keep him home here as long as possible! Do we have to wait for the inevitable accident!
Question 3. I am beginning to feel I am nearing the end of my capability as I am disabled myself! When do I shout, I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE! Then I think I can carry on a bit longer.
I spend night after night dreading all of this, but at this moment ‘we’ don’t really exist anymore, OH is solely wrapped up in ‘him’
I feel sad, frustrated, lonely , burnt out, isolated and all the emotions that everyone on TP suffers!
DN calls for insulin injection, carers for personal care, but thinking this is not enough anymore.
Where do I go for answers?
Thanks for reading !
Also been told for safety he must remain in his profiling bed overnight and use bottle, that’s not working bed and OH soaking this morning, trying pants tonight’s!
Question, is this decline all due to the dementia! ( Mixed Alzheimer’s and Vascular) A decline in cognitive also very apparent, yesterday for first time couldn’t work out guide on his TV remote or change to amount of money!
Who do I go to for these answers?
DN here this morning ( insulin injection) and for the first time said probably time to start considering care home! Horrible when said out loud although have known for some time could be the outcome!
Question 2. Who decides when OH will need residential care? He would require funding and I know that SS will try to keep him home here as long as possible! Do we have to wait for the inevitable accident!
Question 3. I am beginning to feel I am nearing the end of my capability as I am disabled myself! When do I shout, I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE! Then I think I can carry on a bit longer.
I spend night after night dreading all of this, but at this moment ‘we’ don’t really exist anymore, OH is solely wrapped up in ‘him’
I feel sad, frustrated, lonely , burnt out, isolated and all the emotions that everyone on TP suffers!
DN calls for insulin injection, carers for personal care, but thinking this is not enough anymore.
Where do I go for answers?
Thanks for reading !