Dad is staying with us for a few days as Mum needs respite (but refuses all external agency support!)#My husband is brilliant and Dad, on the whole has had a nice time.
Today is my birthday; Dad woke me up at 3am asking where his money was (we had hidden together in a pot in the kitchen as he had drawn out £700 and it was sitting in his wallet!) Dad woke me every 30 minutes or so until I gave up and got up properly at 6:30.
So far today:
1. I've been accused of keeping his money from him (I've tried to explain that I'm doing this for his safety as it's not good to have that amount of money when he's out and about. He's even tried to bargain with me, telling that he'll give me half if I let him have it!!
2. He has told me that I'm not his daughter and I shouldn't "have all this power over him"
I'm knackered! (although pleased that Mum is getting a rest) Husband is amazing as he's taken Dad out or a few hours this morning, but I couldn't go back to sleep (stress)
This is the worse stage, he can be quite good sometimes, but is often confused, and doesn't know what's going on.......rant over!!!
xxx
Today is my birthday; Dad woke me up at 3am asking where his money was (we had hidden together in a pot in the kitchen as he had drawn out £700 and it was sitting in his wallet!) Dad woke me every 30 minutes or so until I gave up and got up properly at 6:30.
So far today:
1. I've been accused of keeping his money from him (I've tried to explain that I'm doing this for his safety as it's not good to have that amount of money when he's out and about. He's even tried to bargain with me, telling that he'll give me half if I let him have it!!
2. He has told me that I'm not his daughter and I shouldn't "have all this power over him"
I'm knackered! (although pleased that Mum is getting a rest) Husband is amazing as he's taken Dad out or a few hours this morning, but I couldn't go back to sleep (stress)
This is the worse stage, he can be quite good sometimes, but is often confused, and doesn't know what's going on.......rant over!!!
xxx