Hi, fiarly new to this as Mum has just been (or is just about to be diagnosed) with moderate Alzheimer's.
Some history:
Apart from her deaf dog, Mum lives alone. She is 74. My Dad died 18 years ago and I live in Somerset, my sister in Lancaster and my younger brother about 6 miles away (but he has 6 kids at home and is quite busy), my older brother died 6 months ago. He had been visiting Mum every day and once he'd gone her situation became very concerning with her not knowing what day it is, having a fridge full of out of date food and getting very anxious about little arrangements. I looks like my brother had been a big help but allowed her condition to go unnoticed.
She is now on week four of visiting the memory assessment centre. the nurse there speaks to my sister occasionally and Mum's Gp is very good but a bit in the dark (hense not knowing if she has been diagnosed). I have arranged a call with Mum's consultant for wednesday and dont know what to ask him.
I would like to know what we can do for her. I went up this weekend and had to clean the kitchen and bathroom, empty and re-fill her fridge and ensure that she had clean clothes. (she wasnt happy about my interfering but was ok about it in the end as I pointed out that my eyesight was better than hers). I am arranging to redecorate parts of the house to make it lighter and have got day clocks and reminder notes for her (near the phone). We have completed a form for a daily visit from someone with DWP, will they do anything to help (cleaning etc) or should we arrange that?
My sister says she is not very good at personal hygiene although I didnt really notice anything.
I will be asking the doctor when she is to start the meds (?aricept) but she is not good at remembering to take the ones she is currently on. She may also be prescribed anti-depressents as she is unhappy (suprise) and still grieving although she doesnt want to talk to anyone about that. I have asked her vicar to pop in but she says she hasnt seen him.
At some point we may need to look at alternative housing - any ideas on what is possible or works?
So far we are all a bit in the dark although we are optemistic that we are heading in the right direction. We'd just like to do what we can for Mum.
thanks
Legion
Some history:
Apart from her deaf dog, Mum lives alone. She is 74. My Dad died 18 years ago and I live in Somerset, my sister in Lancaster and my younger brother about 6 miles away (but he has 6 kids at home and is quite busy), my older brother died 6 months ago. He had been visiting Mum every day and once he'd gone her situation became very concerning with her not knowing what day it is, having a fridge full of out of date food and getting very anxious about little arrangements. I looks like my brother had been a big help but allowed her condition to go unnoticed.
She is now on week four of visiting the memory assessment centre. the nurse there speaks to my sister occasionally and Mum's Gp is very good but a bit in the dark (hense not knowing if she has been diagnosed). I have arranged a call with Mum's consultant for wednesday and dont know what to ask him.
I would like to know what we can do for her. I went up this weekend and had to clean the kitchen and bathroom, empty and re-fill her fridge and ensure that she had clean clothes. (she wasnt happy about my interfering but was ok about it in the end as I pointed out that my eyesight was better than hers). I am arranging to redecorate parts of the house to make it lighter and have got day clocks and reminder notes for her (near the phone). We have completed a form for a daily visit from someone with DWP, will they do anything to help (cleaning etc) or should we arrange that?
My sister says she is not very good at personal hygiene although I didnt really notice anything.
I will be asking the doctor when she is to start the meds (?aricept) but she is not good at remembering to take the ones she is currently on. She may also be prescribed anti-depressents as she is unhappy (suprise) and still grieving although she doesnt want to talk to anyone about that. I have asked her vicar to pop in but she says she hasnt seen him.
At some point we may need to look at alternative housing - any ideas on what is possible or works?
So far we are all a bit in the dark although we are optemistic that we are heading in the right direction. We'd just like to do what we can for Mum.
thanks
Legion