I know this would be extremely difficult to make work, but if BiL refuses to do PoA for himself and my husband for their dad, is there any way we could make it work with just my husband, bearing in mind we.re across the world. Legally, attorneys don't have to be in the UK (govt website) but would he have to go to the UK to sign it etc?
And then if he did get it, could we possibly 'run' it, if it became necessary, at arms' length? If it was Europe with cheap fares I can see possibilities, but a 48hr journey and plane fares etc is just impossible.....unfortunately my husband was made redundant and we just don't have the money for more than a dire emergency dash. I'm clutching at straws here but the alternative of doing nothing doesn't seem to be any better....leaving it to a stranger appointed by CoP (and presumably it would be my FiL who would have to pick up the bill for that?) There's no-one else we could even think of asking to be his attorney
This is all, of course,predicated on FiL still agreeing to the LPA when presented with it
And then if he did get it, could we possibly 'run' it, if it became necessary, at arms' length? If it was Europe with cheap fares I can see possibilities, but a 48hr journey and plane fares etc is just impossible.....unfortunately my husband was made redundant and we just don't have the money for more than a dire emergency dash. I'm clutching at straws here but the alternative of doing nothing doesn't seem to be any better....leaving it to a stranger appointed by CoP (and presumably it would be my FiL who would have to pick up the bill for that?) There's no-one else we could even think of asking to be his attorney
This is all, of course,predicated on FiL still agreeing to the LPA when presented with it