Is it worth me reporting an unwanted caller to the police ( using 101 as it is not an emergency)? A few years ago, when Mum was probably in the early stages of Alzheimer's but not diagnosed, she used a local tradesman to fix a leak from the gutters. We knew she had a leak and at that time we thought she was fine to sort it out. However, it is possible that the man called at her house to point out the leak, she lives in an area where this is common unfortunately. Anyway, the leak was fixed and the price seemed fair.
Since then, we have found out that this man has been regularly round again to " maintain and clean" the gutters and mum now has no idea what she pays him or how often. He knocked at the door a couple of days before Christmas asking for £30 as the final payment for the last clean. My sister, visiting from the US was there and gave him the money. He knew her name and that she lived abroad so obviously mum had been chatting away to him.
Then in early January he called again when I was there taking down the Christmas decorations with exactly the same story ( unfortunately my sister had not told me all the details at that time but I knew it was a repeat visit) and although I doubted what he was saying, I gave him another £30 as mum was getting upset and I thought he might then leave her alone. I made it very clear that I was suspicious and that we did not want him to call again and that the gutters did not need cleaning. He gave me his phone number so we could contact him.
But late this evening, while my brother was there, he knocked again and gave him a similar story about removing a tile that was blocking the gutters last week. My brother was well aware of his previous visits and refused to give him any money and again told him not to contact the house again. I'm not sure why but my brother gave him his phone number and within 15 mins, this chap sent him a text suggesting that we got security cameras fitted! My brother replied saying it was in hand! We cannot think of a reason for him sending this text unless he was going to offer to fix them?
Luckily all of us siblings use a whatsapp group to share everything about mum and what needs doing but we are not there everyday so are thinking of getting broadband installed so we can install some security ( need to work out where to hide the router to stop mum playing with the pretty lights!).
I want to contact the police to report him even though we only know his first name and phone number, and also get some advice about protecting mum in future. Do you think there is any point? Does anyone have any advice or any personal experience as carers?
Our newly installed call blocker has already intercepted six phone calls from numbers that were not withheld but are not on her trusted list. As all the callers hung up in seconds, they did not wait long enough to listen to my message telling them to call me if they really need to speak to mum. My bet is they were all cold callers so I am really chuffed that this equipment is doing its job!
Since then, we have found out that this man has been regularly round again to " maintain and clean" the gutters and mum now has no idea what she pays him or how often. He knocked at the door a couple of days before Christmas asking for £30 as the final payment for the last clean. My sister, visiting from the US was there and gave him the money. He knew her name and that she lived abroad so obviously mum had been chatting away to him.
Then in early January he called again when I was there taking down the Christmas decorations with exactly the same story ( unfortunately my sister had not told me all the details at that time but I knew it was a repeat visit) and although I doubted what he was saying, I gave him another £30 as mum was getting upset and I thought he might then leave her alone. I made it very clear that I was suspicious and that we did not want him to call again and that the gutters did not need cleaning. He gave me his phone number so we could contact him.
But late this evening, while my brother was there, he knocked again and gave him a similar story about removing a tile that was blocking the gutters last week. My brother was well aware of his previous visits and refused to give him any money and again told him not to contact the house again. I'm not sure why but my brother gave him his phone number and within 15 mins, this chap sent him a text suggesting that we got security cameras fitted! My brother replied saying it was in hand! We cannot think of a reason for him sending this text unless he was going to offer to fix them?
Luckily all of us siblings use a whatsapp group to share everything about mum and what needs doing but we are not there everyday so are thinking of getting broadband installed so we can install some security ( need to work out where to hide the router to stop mum playing with the pretty lights!).
I want to contact the police to report him even though we only know his first name and phone number, and also get some advice about protecting mum in future. Do you think there is any point? Does anyone have any advice or any personal experience as carers?
Our newly installed call blocker has already intercepted six phone calls from numbers that were not withheld but are not on her trusted list. As all the callers hung up in seconds, they did not wait long enough to listen to my message telling them to call me if they really need to speak to mum. My bet is they were all cold callers so I am really chuffed that this equipment is doing its job!