Hi padmag:Update on next door situation. The cat is still there I have been feeding and watering it through the letter box. I rang the RSPCA last night and they've been great, they have managed to find the son in law who is looking after the cat (although he hasn't been there for the past 2 days). I received a call from the RSPA saying they are next door so I went over to meet the son in law. He told me that the husband (carer) has died. I was so shocked, but looking back before Christmas he was a broken man could hardly speak or function, never mind looking after a difficult pwd. My email to social services went unanswered or acted on in any way, I feel they have let him down, he has now paid the ultimate price. Shocking.
It's all so sad. The world has become a place here only the strong survive. Canary is so right carers do have to ask for assistance before anything can be done, and that is not right, some just don't ask. The whole medical field should be updated, upon diagnosis, to make sure that the necessities of life are met ( not only for the person afflicted with the illness but the carer as well).