Hi my Mum has dementia and her short term memory is appalling. I was worried that she was not in control of her money so I registered her, previously completed LPA so I now have joint responsibility with my sister and brother for her financial affairs. When I went to the bank I was shocked to discover that she has been withdrawing over £1000 per month in cash from her bank account. As all her bills are paid by direct debit she only has to pay for her weekly hairdressers appointment and food. She does over buy and has cupboards full of stuff she forgets she has, but this does not account for the amounts she is withdrawing. She does not know what she does with the money, but was shocked enough to give us her bank cards. However since then she: constantly complains about having to come 'cap in hand', for money and secretes money around the house, that we can't find, then complains she has no money. When I visit, daily, her only topic of conversation is money - lack of it or lack of control of it and she phones me up to 10 times a day on the same subject. I try to distract her but she is soon back on topic. I was wondering about getting her one of the cards that you can load with money so that she regains some control. Does anyone have any advice please?