OH has been aggressive and violent today, it was triggered by me talking to an old friend in Sainsbury’s coffee shop while he was sat waiting for me. I was talking for no more than 10 minutes he started shouting at me and trying to trip me up while shopping. He started again when we got home pushing me and grabbing me by the throat. I managed to ring the mental health nurse who did come about an hour later. He calmed down knowing she was coming. They were going to reduce his risperidone as he had been ok for a few weeks. He has been horrible since she left threatening me never to bring people here accusing me of all sorts and wants me out. I have given him antidepressants and risperidone and he has finally calmed down and is now reading the paper. I just don’t know what to do, this mood and aggression seem to happen about every 12 weeks with more confusion and worsening memory. Advice welcome.