My mother's short term memory loss is very severe, when I visit her in her care home, she asks a question but cannot retain any of my answer, before I have finished the sentence she is asking again. Her OH is in hospital and she cannot retain any details including why he has not visited. Should I answer the question repeatedly or not? Visiting is increasingly stressful, mother will not accept there is anything wrong with her and wants to go home, which she can't, she also tells me constantly that she is going to kill herself. I'm sure that all of this is not unusual but would like any advice. She has been in the home for a over a year now.