Hi everyone
I really don't know if I have done the right thing. Everyone says its right but I'm not too sure, for the first time I have gone and arranged for mum to in for respite for two weeks. I know I need a break, I haven't had a holiday for over two years, and then that was with my sister and not my husband, he stayed at home to look after mum, so now I would like a couple of days away with my husband and dogs, just somewhere with a different view both inside and out. I know deep down its right, I just feel guilty I guess. Is it the right thing to do or is it just me being selfish, wanting time with my husband. I really don't know, I was happy when I heard at long last I was to get respite as I've been waiting for ages, now just sitting down for a wee cuppa and rest I have started feeling bad, I am worried she will be worse when she comes home or that she will hate me for sending her away from home or something might happen while she is not with me, are these feeling normal???
AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING?????
I really don't know if I have done the right thing. Everyone says its right but I'm not too sure, for the first time I have gone and arranged for mum to in for respite for two weeks. I know I need a break, I haven't had a holiday for over two years, and then that was with my sister and not my husband, he stayed at home to look after mum, so now I would like a couple of days away with my husband and dogs, just somewhere with a different view both inside and out. I know deep down its right, I just feel guilty I guess. Is it the right thing to do or is it just me being selfish, wanting time with my husband. I really don't know, I was happy when I heard at long last I was to get respite as I've been waiting for ages, now just sitting down for a wee cuppa and rest I have started feeling bad, I am worried she will be worse when she comes home or that she will hate me for sending her away from home or something might happen while she is not with me, are these feeling normal???
AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING?????