Hello,
I wonder if anyone has experience / knowledge of this, or can offer advice?
My MIL has dementia and is declining rapidly. After her husband passed she was reunited with her estranged family, and said she'd like to move back home. The family have been brilliant - they found a home, organised everything, and are keenly awaiting her arrival.
So all seemed well. After years of supporting her alone, we felt a huge flood of relief that others would also care for and visit her, and while we can see her less if we move her away, there are many more people to see her overall.
But, then other people have started dropping hints about their suspicions of the family's intentions. A distant cousin even called my OH to tell him to be careful.
My strong gut feeling is that they are lovely people who are just happy to be reunited with their long-lost sister / aunty. My OH has POA and they know that. But - given these warnings - there's an annoying niggle.
I don't want to worry my OH as he is so stressed at the moment, and has been much happier since they got involved. For him it's also having a new family. So instead I thought someone on here could offer some advice or guidance.
Many thanks for reading,
J x
I wonder if anyone has experience / knowledge of this, or can offer advice?
My MIL has dementia and is declining rapidly. After her husband passed she was reunited with her estranged family, and said she'd like to move back home. The family have been brilliant - they found a home, organised everything, and are keenly awaiting her arrival.
So all seemed well. After years of supporting her alone, we felt a huge flood of relief that others would also care for and visit her, and while we can see her less if we move her away, there are many more people to see her overall.
But, then other people have started dropping hints about their suspicions of the family's intentions. A distant cousin even called my OH to tell him to be careful.
My strong gut feeling is that they are lovely people who are just happy to be reunited with their long-lost sister / aunty. My OH has POA and they know that. But - given these warnings - there's an annoying niggle.
I don't want to worry my OH as he is so stressed at the moment, and has been much happier since they got involved. For him it's also having a new family. So instead I thought someone on here could offer some advice or guidance.
Many thanks for reading,
J x