Hi, this is my first post. My grandmother has been diagnosed with vascular dementia and has been in hospital since August following a fall.
She is unable to return home so has been in a care home since September time.
She makes very little sense now and will go in to great detail about stories that are entirely false for example that my grandad has run off with another woman, she has no recollection of his death 3 years ago.
Recently she has been getting very upset saying that the care workers are nasty to her, that they tell her to wait an hour for the toilet, she says they mock her and chant behind her. She has a cut on her arm where a care worker caught her thin skin with their nail and tore the skin, it has been bandaged for a few days.
My question is how do I know what is real and what isnt? I feel totally helpless, she.cries everytime I go because of this 'nastiness' by the carers. It could very easily not be.true as she is in her own world a lot of the.time but I cant help wondering what if it is true?
Any advice would be very much appreciated. Thank you
She is unable to return home so has been in a care home since September time.
She makes very little sense now and will go in to great detail about stories that are entirely false for example that my grandad has run off with another woman, she has no recollection of his death 3 years ago.
Recently she has been getting very upset saying that the care workers are nasty to her, that they tell her to wait an hour for the toilet, she says they mock her and chant behind her. She has a cut on her arm where a care worker caught her thin skin with their nail and tore the skin, it has been bandaged for a few days.
My question is how do I know what is real and what isnt? I feel totally helpless, she.cries everytime I go because of this 'nastiness' by the carers. It could very easily not be.true as she is in her own world a lot of the.time but I cant help wondering what if it is true?
Any advice would be very much appreciated. Thank you