Hi to you all. I hope life is treating you at least reasonably well.
Next week I have to move mum from the intermediate care home she went into after hospital to a long-term care home. When she had her last fall at home she broke her ankle, was transferred by ambulance to hospital, a couple of weeks later, after a first week when she was in and out of delirium, she was transferred by ambulance to a physiotherapy unit. Then, after a mental capacity assessment, a Best Interest meeting determined she would not be safe to go home so she was transferred, by ambulance, to the intermediate care home where she has spent six week. After about three and half weeks, which included assessment of her care needs, another mental capacity assessment and Best Interest meeting it was determined she was still not safe to go home. She is 97, very frail but quite convinced she would be able to manage at home.
So, I am taking her in my car to the new home and the thought of moving this frail, confused and not a little angry 97 year old is terrifying me. I am beginning to think I am totally foolish to think I can do it on my own. I need to persuade her into her wheelchair, out of the wheelchair into the car and then the reverse when we arrive at the new home. I have explained the doctors and carers feel she needs a bit longer with more care and she is very cross about that. I have also explained today that this will mean going to another "unit". I cannot see her being cooperative. Does anyone know anything I can do that will make it an easier journey for both of us?
Next week I have to move mum from the intermediate care home she went into after hospital to a long-term care home. When she had her last fall at home she broke her ankle, was transferred by ambulance to hospital, a couple of weeks later, after a first week when she was in and out of delirium, she was transferred by ambulance to a physiotherapy unit. Then, after a mental capacity assessment, a Best Interest meeting determined she would not be safe to go home so she was transferred, by ambulance, to the intermediate care home where she has spent six week. After about three and half weeks, which included assessment of her care needs, another mental capacity assessment and Best Interest meeting it was determined she was still not safe to go home. She is 97, very frail but quite convinced she would be able to manage at home.
So, I am taking her in my car to the new home and the thought of moving this frail, confused and not a little angry 97 year old is terrifying me. I am beginning to think I am totally foolish to think I can do it on my own. I need to persuade her into her wheelchair, out of the wheelchair into the car and then the reverse when we arrive at the new home. I have explained the doctors and carers feel she needs a bit longer with more care and she is very cross about that. I have also explained today that this will mean going to another "unit". I cannot see her being cooperative. Does anyone know anything I can do that will make it an easier journey for both of us?