Just for the record I’m in the uk but my father was Dutch.I guess it depends if Dutchman is in Holland or not, the rules may be different there, my wife refused an assessment but they did one anyway as I lead her to believe the assessment was for me, in fact it was for both of us.
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I’ve had a tiring day. Started with my wife getting up too early for a short drive out and being generally annoying with constant repeat questions that got on my nerves, I flip and have a go, she throws the keys on the floor, I sulk all the way to end of our drive. I’m fed up with this and I admittedly feel I would be better off on my own but that’s only going to happen in a pretend universe. No one can sit in judgment on us unless they experience this day in and day out. We go to Waitrose and wander aimlessly along with her not deciding on anything. By the time we get home I’m tired of it all. She’s trying to write out some Christmas cards but it’s hopeless (I don’t tell her that) and I feel really sad for her as her writing and comprehension is shot and it must be so depressing for her knowing that those qualities are gone. So I’m floundering in a mixture of frustration and regret, sorrow and sadness.