hi to everyone, i am at the dilemma at the moment,I have been asked what do i want to do now as to Alans future by the doctor and SS Alan is in an EMI unit has been there 4 weeks, his medication lorezepan, serouquel has helped his agitation, has not had any aggression for a while seems more settled, i am thinking of having him home, i know i am making a rod for my own back, hoping the SS will provide some help, i was offered 3 homes one is full with a waiting list, one not suitable, one i have put Alans name down on the list but most are more advanced then Alan, so am not sure whether to go to that one now,i will be visiting the home again with my daughter, seeing the doctor tomorrow. bclark