Thank you. Host mode has become obvious. He changes before I have shut the door! It’s so quick, I don’t have chance to get back into loving carer mode!My OH needs his set routine to get him through the day too. We cant go away on holiday now and I think having builders in would produce the same results here too . Heres to building work finishing and back to peace quiet and routine!
BTW, Im sure sure you know that
is Host Mode, but it is hard to get your head round it. When you see it, its easy to convince yourself that he could be like that all the time. Really, though, you know he cant. Host Mode takes our PWD so much effort that they cant maintain it for long and it leaves them exhausted and grumpy
How I would love a holiday. We have had some fab ones over the years, but now impossible to go anywhere, except hospital, GP, supermarket. We have a 3 hour incontinence pad time frame. Can’t go over that. That’s it.
We do have the occasional lunch in a local pub. But I get indigestion rushing and worrying!! B x