My thoughts are with you Tin sending love xSo here it is, the post I did not want to make. My mum died this afternoon. She past as peacefully as anyone could, after a few days of problems she just stopped breathing and just after the gp and I discussed end of life and medication that would be needed and I was planning to collect said medication this afternoon. I checked on her then went to put laundry away, back to check and no longer breathing, all in a few minutes. Of course my heart is breaking, she has now left the building spirit and body.
I will post but here is my message to all of you that are starting this journey, never ever give up, try to understand this horrible illness, make the best of what you are dealing with today. As angry or confused you get, please please remember it is harder, so much harder for the person suffering from Dementia.
I now have to deal with this horrible feeling of loss and this afternoon my house has been full of people, medical, friends and family. They have now all gone and that is why I am posting this, because you people have been a great support for me. cannot think what else to say, so just going to stop typing and post.
So here it is, the post I did not want to make. My mum died this afternoon. She past as peacefully as anyone could, after a few days of problems she just stopped breathing and just after the gp and I discussed end of life and medication that would be needed and I was planning to collect said medication this afternoon. I checked on her then went to put laundry away, back to check and no longer breathing, all in a few minutes. Of course my heart is breaking, she has now left the building spirit and body.
I will post but here is my message to all of you that are starting this journey, never ever give up, try to understand this horrible illness, make the best of what you are dealing with today. As angry or confused you get, please please remember it is harder, so much harder for the person suffering from Dementia.
I now have to deal with this horrible feeling of loss and this afternoon my house has been full of people, medical, friends and family. They have now all gone and that is why I am posting this, because you people have been a great support for me. cannot think what else to say, so just going to stop typing and post.