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Hello dear Dancer
@dancer12. You’ve put your finger unerringly on the central issue. On my strong days, I feel absolutely determined not to let my personality be changed. If I succumb, then the dementia has won. These, I know, are fighting words. But how can we forego ANY of our hard-won, our cherished, personality traits when we have to call upon the deepest reserves of our characters in order to deal with our situation as carers?
I return to Alice Walker’s words time and again - when, that is, I’m not busy singing The Battle Hymn of the Republic, under my breath, to keep myself going after yet another assault on my good nature from my now grumpy and difficult husband:
“Resistance is the secret of joy.”
May it be so - for us all.