My Mum has carers 3xs a day. I visit and do her shopping out of my own money and buy her tempting food but it is expensive. The carers are throwing out food at the best before date and not at the use by date. I find totally good food in the bin which I would have taken home to give my family, I am struggling for money after caring for my Mum for years and only buy us cheap food but I know that Mum needs tempting and good nutrients. I have spoken to the carer and she said that they have to throw out the food and cannot even put it aside for me to take home. It is appalling the waste taking place, I even find rotting fruit that they haven't thrown out! The care company staff are very dictatorial, it is the third care company we have had due to mistakes leading to Mum having falls and worsening her dementia. Is this the normal rule, throw out food before the best before date. I try and take away food that will be thrown away before my next visit but its very difficult as some foods have a bbd close to the buying date and yet the use by date can be at least a week away if refrigerated. I feel as though we have been taken over by rules and regulations including her taking her T3 thyroid medication which I have to import as there is one manufacturer in the UK which charges the NHS a fortune, Mum has been taking T3 for years and yet when the carers take over they are not allowed to give non-prescription meds even though the NHS endocrinologist sent them a letter and the doctor has signed a MARS sheet. It has taken me over a year to get this sorted and finally last week they agreed to give it to Mum. The endocrinologist said that there would be far fewer people in care homes if they were given T3 and less with dementia. What is going on!! Is this correct with the best before date?