Hello everyone,
My first time posting here, so sorry for my waffling. My mum died about 2 months ago of cancer completely out of the blue. She was diagnosed with an aggressive form of it and then died 2 weeks later, so none of us were ready for it. Since then my Dad (completely understandably) has gone down hill. He 100% has Dementia but doesn’t have a diagnosis yet. Due to him refusing to engage with anyone that has tried to test him. He has expressed that he wants to live with me and not on his own now that mums gone. Which means I’m going to have to give up my job, which is fine as family are #1. He hasn’t had a bath/shower for almost 2 months and I feel I have tried everything to get him to have one. Any tips? He knows he’s got an ‘issue with memory’ but he won’t acknowledge it. I guess he’s scared?! We have discovered that Mum had been hiding a lot from us regarding Dad and how bad he has got?! So it’s a step learning curve. Sorry for long chat. Just a bit lost with it all
My first time posting here, so sorry for my waffling. My mum died about 2 months ago of cancer completely out of the blue. She was diagnosed with an aggressive form of it and then died 2 weeks later, so none of us were ready for it. Since then my Dad (completely understandably) has gone down hill. He 100% has Dementia but doesn’t have a diagnosis yet. Due to him refusing to engage with anyone that has tried to test him. He has expressed that he wants to live with me and not on his own now that mums gone. Which means I’m going to have to give up my job, which is fine as family are #1. He hasn’t had a bath/shower for almost 2 months and I feel I have tried everything to get him to have one. Any tips? He knows he’s got an ‘issue with memory’ but he won’t acknowledge it. I guess he’s scared?! We have discovered that Mum had been hiding a lot from us regarding Dad and how bad he has got?! So it’s a step learning curve. Sorry for long chat. Just a bit lost with it all