Hello Everyone!
On Tuesday a social worker phoned up saying he needed to talk to dad and I in the care home about 'Deprivation Of Liberty'. He initially asked if the care home had spoken to me about this but I said they hadn't he expressed surprise and then we arranged the meeting. Anyway the social worker arrived before me and so he had a chat with the staff and looked at dad's case notes. Then the three of us went to have our chat starting with the social worker asking dad some questions and below is a sample of what happened:
Social Worker : How old do you think you are?
Dad: Fifties
Social Worker: What type of place do you think this is?
Dad: School
Social Worker: Do they look after you well here?
Dad: No
Some other questions were asked before going back to the following:
Social Worker: How old do you think you are?
Dad: Fifties
Social Worker: Your notes suggest 85
Dad: Oh I'm not that old
Social Worker: What type of place do you think this is hotel, care home, school?
Dad: School
Social Worker: Do you see any children here?
Dad: Couldn't answer this and I didn't like the mention of the word care home because I have been trying to avoid these words where dad is concerned.
The social worker then asked me some questions and I had to explain about why I had to put dad in the home! The social worker then explained that deprivation of liberty is where someone can no longer do things on their own and the social worker's job is to see that dad really needed to be in a care home. He needed to make sure that I wasn't just trying to get rid of him and the meeting ended with him agreeing that I could no longer look after dad because the last time dad collapsed, because he had decided to eat smaller portions of his main meals I tried to prop him up and risked injuring myself. I said it is very difficult to look after a diabetic who also suffers from Alzheimers with diabetes you can't just stop eating! Anyway dad started to get bored and so the social worker had to try and round up and said that he would be coming again in six months time!
MaNaAk
On Tuesday a social worker phoned up saying he needed to talk to dad and I in the care home about 'Deprivation Of Liberty'. He initially asked if the care home had spoken to me about this but I said they hadn't he expressed surprise and then we arranged the meeting. Anyway the social worker arrived before me and so he had a chat with the staff and looked at dad's case notes. Then the three of us went to have our chat starting with the social worker asking dad some questions and below is a sample of what happened:
Social Worker : How old do you think you are?
Dad: Fifties
Social Worker: What type of place do you think this is?
Dad: School
Social Worker: Do they look after you well here?
Dad: No
Some other questions were asked before going back to the following:
Social Worker: How old do you think you are?
Dad: Fifties
Social Worker: Your notes suggest 85
Dad: Oh I'm not that old
Social Worker: What type of place do you think this is hotel, care home, school?
Dad: School
Social Worker: Do you see any children here?
Dad: Couldn't answer this and I didn't like the mention of the word care home because I have been trying to avoid these words where dad is concerned.
The social worker then asked me some questions and I had to explain about why I had to put dad in the home! The social worker then explained that deprivation of liberty is where someone can no longer do things on their own and the social worker's job is to see that dad really needed to be in a care home. He needed to make sure that I wasn't just trying to get rid of him and the meeting ended with him agreeing that I could no longer look after dad because the last time dad collapsed, because he had decided to eat smaller portions of his main meals I tried to prop him up and risked injuring myself. I said it is very difficult to look after a diabetic who also suffers from Alzheimers with diabetes you can't just stop eating! Anyway dad started to get bored and so the social worker had to try and round up and said that he would be coming again in six months time!
MaNaAk