sorry but can not find original thread. I asked for advice on a needs assessment that was going to be done on mum and was given excellent advice, I wrote everything down, asked for the moon and said I cannot carry on as carer without help. Well today I have received a letter to say mum has been awarded three days at the care Center and four half hours a week, of course she will now have a finance assessment but mum doesn’t have a lot just enough to pay for a funeral at today’s prices. Sounds silly but I feel like I have won on the lottery. A big thank you everyone for your help x