hi my Mum and I care for my dad who has Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia, he is also deaf and blind.he has deteriorated a lot in the last year, hallucinations,temper, anxiety . In the past month he’s got in several complete rages, inappropriate behaviour playing with himself in the lounge while I was looking after him and then this week we’ve had poo spread all round the bathroom. I’m at the end of my tether, I don’t want anything to do with him I’ve been sworn at ,had things thrown at me, been screamed at for hours and I’m sorry I’ve had enough. I’m scared of him and what he’s going to do next. Other family members aren’t the slightest bit interested. Mum is as worn out as me. He is very possessive over Mum.
He’s been assessed by ss and they’ve given a small amount towards three hours care per week but Mum still has to pay an amount as well and can’t afford anymore.
Thanks for listening
Jo
He’s been assessed by ss and they’ve given a small amount towards three hours care per week but Mum still has to pay an amount as well and can’t afford anymore.
Thanks for listening
Jo