Dad is terminally ill and currently in hospital. He's the primary carer for my stepmum who is currently in respite care (Social Services are expecting to take her home in 2 weeks, back to my Dad! Obviously Dad can't look after himself, let alone his wife with dementia).
We've tried contacting SS but they won't speak to us as we don't have Power of Attorney for either Dad or Stepmum (nobody does - long story, but we've only just got back in touch after a family feud, Dad failed to tell us how ill he'd become until it was a terminal diagnosis).
So, Dad can't go home but doesn't have anywhere to go (yet). Stepmum obviously can't go home as nobody will be there. We're stumped as to what to do for both their needs.
We've tried contacting SS but they won't speak to us as we don't have Power of Attorney for either Dad or Stepmum (nobody does - long story, but we've only just got back in touch after a family feud, Dad failed to tell us how ill he'd become until it was a terminal diagnosis).
So, Dad can't go home but doesn't have anywhere to go (yet). Stepmum obviously can't go home as nobody will be there. We're stumped as to what to do for both their needs.