Magazines and Sunday Supplements regularly publish articles titled 'Living Well with Dementia' or even worse '10 ways to ensure you do not develop Dementia'. Those of us with personal or close experience of Dementia, are only too well aware of the many different paths that the progress of the disease takes and how the relationships and personalities of those involved as PWD or Carer ensure that each 'case' is different. I have never seen anyone on TP saying that they know what caused their loved one's dementia or that the wished that their LO had taken more exercise, read more books, etc. etc. The general public are being given the impression that there is now medication (Donepezil) which will magically relieve the symptoms and that there is readily available, affordable provision e.g. care homes, day centres where PWD can be placed when their condition worsens. There has never been a long term character in a soap or drama series who has portrayed the relentless, never ending reality of Living with Dementia, instead we get the aged Priest or Uncle who sits and snoozes, waking up at inopportune moments to make rude remarks. We never see them being toileted, bathed, spoonfed, or taking an hour to get dressed and everyone goes about their daily business or off to the pub leaving them Home Alone, with no serious consequences.
Like other posters above, I am disappointed, indeed angered, by this survey promoted by AS (who should know better). I am seriously thinking of starting a non-party Political but Campaigning thread on TP where we could get together to share thoughts and suggestions/examples of how things (bureaucracy, policies, etc.) could be changed to make our lives a little easier. I know how hard it is to add something else to our list of 'things to do' but if we, the family carers do not make our voices heard, then it seems that no one else will speak up for us.