My wife has Alzheimer's and was Diagnosed 3 years ago. We went too see her consultant on Friday and she told me that her medication had been just about exhausted and that I should consider my wife going into respite for a few days but she also said that perhaps I should go to see her every day and spend the daytime with her, while I don't want to have my wife in respite I can't see the point of her being in respite if I have to visit each day and spend the day with her, I need a break from her, as much as I love her she is getting me down, so much so I feel at breaking point. Can anyone advise me if I am expected to spend the days with het, to my way of thinking it would defeat the reason for her to go into respite. The other advice that the consultant gave me was that I should be looking at the possibility of care in the not to far distant future which is the last thing that I want for my wife, I just been to be able to have a break. The consultant also gave me diazepam to give to calm her down the only problem is that when she has taken diazepam in the afternoon she is totally washed and sleepy the next morning and I just have to write the morning off, I just don't know what to do for the best. Please can anyone advise me about her time in respite. Thanks putting up with my ramblings.