Hi. I'm new on here and just wanted to ask for some advice. My MIL was diagnosed with Alzheimer's last week. It has been quite a shock really as she only started showing definite symptoms this year. It has made our husband and I feel very guilty because we haven't noticed before. Anyway, she has declined very quickly over the past few months following the death of my FIL in May. She had a fall and is now living with us until we can get a care package in place for her to return home. She is in total and utter denial and got very cross with the psychiatrist who diagnosed her maintaining that there is nothing wrong with her apart from a bit of memory loss that all old people get. This is obviously not true - her memory is very, very bad, she gets confused and disorientated easily and forgets who her grandchildren are, who her children are and whether I am married to her son etc etc. I don't think she has taken in the diagnosis at all. I don't know if she understands what it means or what the future will hold for her. Having said all this, she seems quite happy and settled, we have a laugh, and she loves her crosswords despite not being able to answer hardly any of the clues. So my question is ... do we attempt to tell her exactly what she has and what she can expect? I am in two minds. My husband really doesn't want to upset her and doesn't see the point in distressing her. I keep thinking she has a right to know but at what cost? TIA. This forum seems incredibly supportive and a great source of information. I might be on here a lot!