Hello again
@Jezzer - I haven't been around for a bit, horrendously busy, although I have had a nightly skim through TP!
My goodness, what a terrible situation to be in for both you and your poor Mum. It really makes you worry that at that most stressful of moments, you had to fight to get your Mum's own wishes met. Must have been awful - but well done you for staying your ground and not giving in under such bullying pressure.
Without wishing to appear blunt or callous, wouldn't you think that with all the news of lack of beds in hospitals and the like, medical staff would be quite accepting of a formal decision for an elderly person at end of life, to remain intervention free and not take up a hospital place?
Hope Mum settles comfortably again and that you are OK after all the upset.
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