My MIL has carers come in a few times a day to ensure she takes her tablets and give her her meals. A new carer has just come onto her rota and is causing me a rather unusual concern. We have access to the carers' logs electronically. We can therefore monitor how each visit went and take any action necessary. However, this new carer seems to have an issue with us. We have CCTV in mum's house so we can keep an eye on the carers arrival if we need to ask them anything. The new carer is feeding back inaccurate reports of the situation and quite frankly I find her logs rude and upsetting. I have been trying to decide how to handle the first occurence of this when she wrote somethingsnippy about my husband after he had asked her to do something. The latest incident though is that on Saturday night I "ordered" her to do something and then abruptly terminated the call. This is simply not the case and not how I would deal with things anyway. I asked her to do something and I asked her kindly, told her I was very grateful and we ended the call with the usual pleasantries. Looking at her log for the next visit she has made some digs at us and indicated that she has mentioned something numerous times to no avail. I don't know who she has mentioned them to because it was the first I had heard about it. She also makes a comment about mum needing walking aids when she has to walk past the aids to get into any room in the house!
I know I need to deal with this and I guess I should do it in writing but I seem to have had to chase them up on so much lately I am worried they will give us notice. It took a long time to find a company that covered MIL's area that didn't charge astronomical fees and generally the physical care she receives is very good. There have been other digs made by another of the carers which have only happened after this one started at the company. It is clear from things in the logs that there are also uncomplementary behind the scenes conversations going on.
I really would welcome anyone else's perspective on this.
LD
I know I need to deal with this and I guess I should do it in writing but I seem to have had to chase them up on so much lately I am worried they will give us notice. It took a long time to find a company that covered MIL's area that didn't charge astronomical fees and generally the physical care she receives is very good. There have been other digs made by another of the carers which have only happened after this one started at the company. It is clear from things in the logs that there are also uncomplementary behind the scenes conversations going on.
I really would welcome anyone else's perspective on this.
LD