Thank you I do that every day really as half the time she does not know who i am. in the mornings she keeps looking for the others I used to explain every day that my husband was at work and only me and her are in the house, Now she says where are the others all at work I just say yes as I do not know who the others are.
Last night me and my daughter were doing the cooking when we both sat down to eat, my mium ask where the other one was I said who and she replied the one that was cooking? both me and my daughter were at the table. She ask again later And i said she has done the washing up and left is it wrong to say something that was not true? it did however stop her asking.
Also dose any one know if my mother has lewy body from these symptoms she see's people in her bedroom in the morning also outside in the garden she walks with a stoop and seems to have forgotten to pick her feet up and her slipper squeck on the floor all day
While I certainly can't say if your mom has Lewy Body dementia, it does sound very familiar. My OH was diagnosed last year with AD but I think he has Lewy Body Dementia. He has been seeing people/animals and had hyper sensitive hearing for a couple of years now. It is an everyday occurrence now and much like your mom asks where the other people are, where the person he was just talking to has gone and like you has seen me doing things and then asked where the lady went that was (in the kitchen/garden); has also gone right past me and when I asked where he was going said he was looking for me.
In addition while different research seems to show different findings it appears that with Lewy it does not appear to take quite the same trajectory! My OH too has declined quite rapidly since last year. When diagnosed he could still do a lot of things for himself although had lost the concept of time/day of the week, was already seeing things (and had been off and on for some years), had been driving although only locally, had lost all sense of direction and was obsessive about things (wallet, socks - don't ask, hat, glasses etc) however you could still have a conversation with him and he could more or less follow it.
Now everything he talks about is not real, has forgotten his mom has died (20 years ago), can still talk but doesn't really know what a lot of the words we say mean, real conversation is a thing of the past. He can not find his way around the house, although we have lived here for 35 years, and basically needs everything done for him. He can sort of dress himself, but never in the right order, buttons, zips etal can't do - is still continent although will pee in the bath or shower (at least it is still on porcelain)!
Having read up on Lewy Body dementia I am convinced that is what my husband has while all dementia's end up being similar, the route to the end point varies depending on the type. I This said, you may say, why does it matter, well two reasons in the case of Lewy:
- Research has found that medication given for AD can have an extremely adverse effect on individuals with LBD, so it is important if any medication is being considered if LBD is suspected any medication is selected with great care
- Some research has also identified that the individuals with LBD appear to have a faster progression post diagnosis and life expectancy is shorter than those with AD
I am very glad that my OH (who is 8 yrs older than I am) and I retired early and did quite a bit of travelling etc. as I have seen this coming for the past 8 years.
I know that a definitive diagnosis cannot be made, the best they can do is to say it is probable that someone has it. My OH is due another scan at the beginning of Sept and sees his Memory Clinic Dr towards the end of September, so will see what he says then - I have asked the question regarding Lewy Body, so we wait and see.
I would recommend reading A care giver's guide to Lewy Body Dementia written by Helen and James Whitworth - while some of it makes me feel very inadequate, it is a very useful and informative book.