Many of us can totally understand your last sentence I too felt like that
I know, I feel sad for thinking such things but I consider the other option is far worse. I feel that I am building him up in readiness for morphine patches and transfusions and it just seems wrong but I can't see any other option at the moment, He had 4 milkshakes and some ice cream before midday today. He is very happy and feels fine. He doesn't look fine, he is very frail and shrunken with no memory of yesterday.
Thing is other than the cancer and dementia and the frailty he is healthy. I have never known dad to be ill, not even a cold or sore throat so he is very likely to go the course with his cancer.
I am fighting to make things nice for him but none of us can win here and I just don't want him to suffer.
I will say another little prayer tonight even though I don't think there is anyone there to listen but I suppose it is worth a try.