My first post here.
Dad, 82, has vascular dementia and is now getting pretty bad. In many ways he isn't the problem but my mother is. We've had a really hard time with her as she mostly wants to deny that there is a problem and often insists that he does what he does just to be difficult. She has also been extremely resistant to letting anyone other than family come and help. She has also, for reasons best known to her, decided that cleaning the house is not something she wants to do anymore.
I imagine that a lot of people face the same sort of problem. It is just difficult to have to not interfere too much and watch Dad stumble about and not be very clean.
Dad, 82, has vascular dementia and is now getting pretty bad. In many ways he isn't the problem but my mother is. We've had a really hard time with her as she mostly wants to deny that there is a problem and often insists that he does what he does just to be difficult. She has also been extremely resistant to letting anyone other than family come and help. She has also, for reasons best known to her, decided that cleaning the house is not something she wants to do anymore.
I imagine that a lot of people face the same sort of problem. It is just difficult to have to not interfere too much and watch Dad stumble about and not be very clean.