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My mum is 90 has had dementia for years and after my dad passing who was mums carer, has been in a lovely care home for 18 months. She has lost so much weight, won’t/can’t eat and now has been assigned to the palliative care team. I was taken into a room last week to make sure the end of life plan was still relevant, ie no hospital, just made comfy in home if possible. Is this the end? She has no quality of life so I think she deserves to be at rest but feel guilty for thinking this. She cannot go on not eating, drinking little. She spends lots of time in bed but the home try if possible to hoist her to her chair and get her to the lounge with other residents but she looks so hunched up and uncomfortable. I visit every couple days, when will I know I should be there, to be there at the end? Thank you
My mum is 90 has had dementia for years and after my dad passing who was mums carer, has been in a lovely care home for 18 months. She has lost so much weight, won’t/can’t eat and now has been assigned to the palliative care team. I was taken into a room last week to make sure the end of life plan was still relevant, ie no hospital, just made comfy in home if possible. Is this the end? She has no quality of life so I think she deserves to be at rest but feel guilty for thinking this. She cannot go on not eating, drinking little. She spends lots of time in bed but the home try if possible to hoist her to her chair and get her to the lounge with other residents but she looks so hunched up and uncomfortable. I visit every couple days, when will I know I should be there, to be there at the end? Thank you