My father was recently diagnosed with dementia. My mother is attempting to care for him with my husband and myself, doing all the shopping, bills, house work and caring for their lawn. I’m also their driver. I’ m there 6-9 hours daily but it’s not enough. He is declining rapidly and today he fell. My mother’ s health is also declining. I have a physical and an occupational therapist 2x / week. They want my husband and me to move in and leave our home. Any suggestions?