As long as that person didn’t say “I’ll get someone to call you back” . Good luck, you’re goin* to need it!
I know this is an awful problem and my heart really does bleed for you; however, I have to congratulate you on your so, so, amusing way of relating your cares and woes. Your 'derring do's' actually made me laugh out loud. That said, please don't think I'm trivialising them but your narrative is such a tonic in my bleak existence as a carer. xThanks @canary . I'm in the process of removing all his cloth pants ASAP but he seems to have found some strays!! SS are coming to assess his care needs in 3 weeks so this will be going on the list of things he needs help with. Hopefully that will sort out the morning and evening dressing but the daytime change, which he needs now is more problematic..
I'm wondering if I can get away with a sneaky yank at the side of the pull-ups and "oh dear dad they've ripped. I'll get you a new pair..." Or wether to go with "The doctor says you need to wear these special pants to avoid pressure sores and you have to change them three times a day..." Because he doesn't wet himself...ever!!!!
Can't see him being thrilled with either
I know this is an awful problem and my heart really does bleed for you; however, I have to congratulate you on your so, so, amusing way of relating your cares and woes. Your 'derring do's' actually made me laugh out loud. That said, please don't think I'm trivialising them but your narrative is such a tonic in my bleak existence as a carer. x
Thank you .
I frequently have to sneak off to the kitchen to laugh at dad's shenanigans...
If I didn't laugh I'd cry - and where would that get me?
I so admire you. You are a shining example - I wish you lived next door!!Thank you .
I frequently have to sneak off to the kitchen to laugh at dad's shenanigans...
If I didn't laugh I'd cry - and where would that get me?
Good to hear from you but so sorry it is so tough. I will be very interested to know the response of SS! I know, all this washing and making and remaking the bed. My OH used to pull the duvet off and carry it around with him all through the house, all down the stairs, bit like a child with a comforter. Does anyone else have experience of this? I so wish your dad would wear the pullups. with you all way.I'm really fed up now. 2 loads of washing today. Stripped bed, remade it, dad sat on it and...had to do it all again. I'm going to lose my rag with him if he doesn't start wearing the pull-ups
Apparently there's someone coming into his house with a watering can and watering everywhere
I've emailed SS and told them I can't go on and they have a duty of care etc etc. Not holding my breath though...
And of course I won't really quit.
Got a visit from dad's CPN tomorrow. It'll be me that needs the psychiatric help soon ..
How about telling your dad that the carers are there to do his meals because he is too lazy?
WELL HOW GOOD IS THIS!!Bring out the champagne - the social worker has finally called me back!!
So that's what the CPN achieved while she was squashing dad's cushion
Of course I was halfway up a really steep hill on my bike when she called . Still it gave me a good excuse to walk to the top