My OH gets angry when I am ill or unable for some other reason to give him attention.
I think that deep down he knows that he needs me to look after him and is afraid about when will happen if I cant. Their world narrows so that they can only see their own wants, needs and comforts and their instinct for survival kicks in.
At the moment I have not been able to give OH my full attention for the last 3 weeks and my back is very painful, so I am having to get OH to do more. He is just not coping with me not putting him at the centre of my life and has come out with a massive eczema attack all over his back, which he is constantly scratching and making it bleed. Im having to put cream all over his back and there is lots more washing where he has got blood all over bedding, towels and clothing. Its almost as if he is forcing me to take more notice of him again (even though I know it is not deliberate).
He has lost empathy and is unable to understand that if he just didnt make so much fuss I would get better quicker