Hello everyone, I am new to this as this is my first post. My husband is 63 and has dementia. It started most likely about 7 years ago but was diagnosed 2 years ago. He has suffered from depression for many years but antidepressants worked well for him. After he was diagnosed, he was so nice with me. He didn't really know he had alzheimers because I always used cognitive with him. About a year ago, he was started on aricept 5 mg. His behavior changed for the worst over time. It was terrible. The dr prescribed Namenda thinking it would help his behavior. I gave it to him for only 2 days because his agitation was worst. Then I started thinking when his abusive behavior started and I decided to stop the aricept and see how he would be. It has been 3 weeks and he hasn't raised his voice to me once. I realized that the Aricept did help him be more aware and focused but he was focusing on everything he cant do any longer, like driving etc. I do feel somewhat guilty about stopping it. I don't want to be selfish. However, he is so much more peaceful now. I understand this could all change tomorrow. I pray every night for strength and guidance through this, I would like others opinion and their experience if they also stopped the aricept. Thank you.