Hello! My mother has recently come home from a spell in hospital, having had pneumonia again. Her eating was not brilliant before she went in, but normally, my father could get her to eat something at each mealtime. She has been home for 11 days now, and for the last five, the only food that she has eaten is a mouthful of toast. My father is going spare, as you can imagine, and sought the opinion of the community nurse who came to check on Mother's pressure sores. The nurse advised consulting the doctor ASAP if this situation continued, and, following my sister's visit yesterday, Father has confirmed he will call the doctor today. We are also concerned about her fluid intake (possibly even more important than the eating) - she has to be prompted to drink anything, but considers that one mouthful has fulfilled her duty! My mother can be very insistent, and, when we try and persuade/cajole/bribe/threaten her into eating something, she will say "I don't WANT it!". If you do manage to get a mouthful into her, she will instantly claim to feel sick, and start to cough. She never has been sick, however. We're used to her suddenly not liking foods that she's always loved - that's much easier to deal with - but flat refusal is so difficult. My husband asked her if she had any feelings of hunger, or needing to eat, and she just answered "No, not at all". We've noted that her response to us has deteriorated - she would normally make some effort to join in a discussion, for example, and would certainly respond well to being spoken to directly, but since she came home from hospital, she will barely reply to a question, and now dozes far more frequently. She does understand that not eating can result in her becoming ill and potentially being taken back to hospital, but seems unable to do anything about it. My sister and I seriously fear that our father's worst nightmare might be about to come true, and that she will need to go into full time care - he is not coping, whatever he might say to us, and really doesn't know which way to turn at the moment. Thank you for taking the trouble to read this lengthy post, it has made me feel better just typing it all out. Catherine.